Former Colleague Janelle Booth Clevinger
(Currently
owner of Clevinger Creative Services, Inc., Wilson, NC)
Mark and I met nearly 20 years ago when he worked for WRAL’s Wilson bureau and I worked for a local video production company. We hired Mark to shoot Steadicam for a United Way video and I was instantly drawn to this man with the infectious smile and dry sense of humor. That day was the beginning of a personal and professional relationship with one of the nicest, kindest people I will ever meet.
There were two things that you could count on when you saw Mark: you knew you’d be greeted with that huge smile of his and that a meal of some sort of meal would be involved. You would never go hungry when you were with Mark.
I was constantly amazed at how upbeat and calm Mark always was despite the chaos that might be going on around him. Even if I walked into a room upset about something that had happened to me and had nothing to do with the shoot, he always knew just what to say to calm me down and make me realize that whatever it was, it really wasn’t that bad after all. Time after time, I watched him have that same effect on everyone.
More than anything, Mark loved his family and he drove the six hour trip to visit them in Tennessee every chance he could. I gave him a hard time about that (“It’s Groundhogs Day, Mark. Are you in Tennessee?”) but in reality I envied that devotion, dedication and true love.
I have had a few times in my life when, just for a few moments, I have felt completely at peace with the world, that all the “stars have aligned” correctly, and I had not a care in the world. These moments occur very rarely but one of them happened years ago with Mark. One evening after grabbing some dinner together, we drove out to the Raleigh Durham Airport for a reason that I can't recall. The sun was setting, the windows were down in his Jeep and neither of us was saying a word. A sky of red and orange was sinking under the horizon and all you could hear was the sound of the wind and the road. It was so simple, but it was a moment of complete peace and contentment that I will always treasure. I was with Mark. And I was safe.
After Mark’s funeral on Saturday, I stood in his parent’s yard and looked out into the Tennessee mountains that he loved so dearly. Behind me, his family and friends shared memories and stories. In front of me, I watched a deer run across a clearing and I knew Mark was watching over us smiling and saying, "I got you all to Tennessee after all, didn't I?"
I love you, Mark. I can’t wait to see your smile again. |